Blessing comes in many ways. Mostly when we seek God for true blessing. Ask the Lord to open your heart to the many ways blessings can come.
The Beatitudes in Matthew 5:1-12, Jesus lists what it means to be blessed. It is not what I think of being blessed or when I pray for others to be blessed. Remember all those prayers when you were little, “Bless Mommy, Daddy, Auntie and Nana”? We had no idea what we were saying! We were actually saying, "Let them be poor in spirit, mourning, meek, hungering and thirsting for righteousness, merciful, pure, peacemakers, and persecuted.” Hahaha…
How could any of that lead to happiness or blessing? It’s the opposite of happiness. But the Beatitudes tell us we can never be happy when we live self-centered lives. We may be fooled into thinking we're happy for a while but eventually we learn true happiness can only be found in our relationship with Jesus. The One who made us knows what will give us satisfaction in life. We have to get to the end of ourselves and the beginning of God to gain any lasting contentment in life.That can happen only through divine revelation and transformation through God's Word and the Holy Spirit living in us.
Spend time reading the Beatitudes and ask God to give you revelation about what they mean in your life.